‘Stupid me said ok’: Neighbor expects man to do her laundry every week after her washing machine breaks, he considers buying her a new washing machine to make it stop

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    My neighbor wants me to do her laundry
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    So my apartment neighbor, right in front of me, wants me to do her laundry. We are both single in our 30's, and so far we always got along formally such as giving good morning, afternoon. and etc. A month ago her
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    washing machine broke down and she knocked on my door and asked me if she could use my washing machine. I said no problem, but instead of her coming in and doing herself, she gave me her basket full of her clothes, which a ton of her
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    pies were visible. I was in shock, specially because I don't feel it's very higiene to touch someone's else's dirty clothes. But hey, I did it anyway, luckily her clothes. smelled good so it was not that bad of a chore. Places everything back in the
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    basket and gave back to her, all folded and etc. She thanked me and gifted me baked cookies which were ok. However a week later on a Friday night she asked me to do it again. because she couldn't find. someone to fix her wash machine, and stupid me
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    said ok, so I did it again. What happens now is that for the last 3 months I've been doing her dirty laundry, and she had the audacity to ask me to wash her clothes in the sink with a natural soap because my machine is giving her allergies
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    according to her. So now each 3 days I have to do her laundry in my kitchen sink with my bare hands. I just don't know what to say, in a polite way, that I think she might be starting to cross boundaries.
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    UPDATE 1: Thank you for the positive comments and advices. I do avoid conflict and I am a very introverted person. After reading the posts, I decided to stand my ground. I gave her clean
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    clothes back and I said this nonsense had to stop. We came to an agreement, and I am helping her buy a new washing machine. Delivery time should be from 1 to 2 weeks tops. I
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    am feeling relieved this are the last weeks doing that bs. The anxiety and not being able to sleep at night was king me. Thank you all A
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    thegreatg... 1d ago Sounds like you need to charge her money.
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    rustigirl19 1d ago She can't wash her own clothes in her own sink?
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    spacetstacy · 1d ago Why do you keep doing it? Stop. It's been 3 months. Her machine must be fixed by now. Is she paying for your extra water, electricity (or gas), or your time?
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    I'm sorry, but you're crazy for doing this. I MIGHT have done it the first time (without folding her clothes), but that's it. She has a sink. There are laundromats. Stop being a door mat.
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    • Kittytigris 1d ago Just tell her no, 3 months is more than enough time to figure something out for laundry. Just point her to the nearest laundromat.
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    DistinctNew... • 1d ago Some people in this world will take as much as they can get from you. It's important to be able to advocate for yourself in life. You've done an incredibly nice thing for someone you
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    don't know well and it's okay to say "I'm sorry, but I just don't have time to keep doing your laundry." She should have had hers fixed or replaced by now, tbh. She has a sink and can sink-wash
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    her own laundry. You can also let her know that, on top of not having the time for it, you can't afford the increase in energy cost and water cost.
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    DeGroove 1d ago . Sorry buts that's embarrassing. Please stop. Next time she asks say no thanks, gonna pass on that. Don't explain yourself or add anything else to it. She's punking you.
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